Friday, November 6, 2009




December 19, 1931 ~ October 04, 2009
Jean Elaine Harman Bready passed away peacefully on October 4, 2009 at the age of 77 in Salt Lake City, Utah. She was born on December 19, 1931 to Leonard and Lucy Rawson Harman in Granger, Utah. She married Robert E. Bready on September 17, 1952. Their marriage was later solemnized in the Salt Lake City Temple on April 15, 1953.
A faithful member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Jean served in the presidencies of the Primary, Young Women, and Relief Society organizations and was a temple worker in the Jordan River Temple. She also served a two year service mission in the Church Office Building as an accounting clerk. She treasured her Relief Society sisters and the love they shared performing service for their sisters and others. Jean was also an avid reader of the scriptures.
She is survived by her husband Robert; children, Robert (Lori) Bready, Randall (Gladys) Bready, Brian (Kelly) Bready, Sharon (Rob) Davis, Jon (Stacie) Bready, Michael (Heather) Bready, Sandra Bready, Jennifer (Curt) Norman; 25 grandchildren and 6 great-grandchildren; sister, Bonnie DeHaan; brothers, Leonard, Clifford, Stephen and Joseph Harman. Preceded in death by an infant son, Burke (1965), her parents and sisters, Cleo and Beverly.
Funeral Services will be held on Saturday, October 10th at 12:00 Noon at the Pepperwood Chapel, 2195 East Pepperwood Drive, Sandy. A Viewing will be held Friday, October 9th from 6:00 to 8:00 pm at Larkin Sunset Gardens Mortuary, 1950 E. 10600 So., Sandy, and at the Ward on Saturday from 10:00 am to 11:30 am. Interment will be at Larkin Sunset Gardens Cemetery. Online condolences at www.larkincares.com.

Friday, April 3, 2009

Welcome Home!!!

Mom should be home by now.  She was heading out after lunch.
 
Welcome home, mama!


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Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Update

Mom's still pretty sure she gets to come home this Friday.  Keep your fingers crossed.  She had an appointment with her rheumatologist yesterday.  She said the doc told her that they believe the Anca Vasculitis is in remission. Yay!  They're going to cut back her steroid medication from 15mg to 5mg.  That should help her feel like she's got more energy.  She's still working on her stair mastery.  Randy installed a second set of rails on the other side of the stairs so mom will have rails to hold onto to help her get up and down the stairs.  She'll still be going to dialysis three times a week for the next month or so.  She is supposed to have an appointment with a surgeon to talk about implanting the dialysis port for her home dialysis treatments.  Hopefully that will be soon.  She also needs to get an appointment with an opthamologist.  She is having trouble with her left eye.  That is the eye that she kept blowing blood vessels in for the past couple of months.  She is having a hard time focusing and can't watch tv or read.  How boring for her.  Hopefully they will be able to figure out what's going on with her eye so she can read or watch tv or do whatever she would like to do.
 
I guess that's it for now.


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Friday, March 27, 2009

Good news, bad news & not so bad news

The Good News:
Mom will probably get to come home soon.  Don't know the date yet.  She's doing better with the stairs - yay!  I guess her medical team has to have a meeting and then she'll know when.
 
The Bad News:
She had her apointment with the kidney doctor and was told her kidneys sustained too much damage, therefore she will be on dialysis permanently.  Not the news we wanted to hear.
 
The Not So Bad News:
Her doctor said she is a candidate for a procedure where they implant a port somewhere under the skin and she can do dialysis at home, while she sleeps.  So, she won't have to spend 3 days a week at a dialysis facility.  She'll be able to do it at home.
 
So, that's the news for now.


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Sunday, March 22, 2009

mom takes a fieldtrip

Mom was able to attend the Draper temple dedication at the stake center.  She was looking forward to going and being able to see the inside of a church building again and many familiar loving faces. 
 
I just spoke with dad.  He said that they both really enjoyed the dedication and mom enjoyed being "out of her cell."  He said that there were a few folks from the ward that came over to say hi to them.  I know mom loved it.
 
After the dedication they took mom home for lunch.  Dad said she really had a hard time with the stairs in the garage.  Randy had to really support her going down into the garage.  She's got a lot of work to do to get her legs and knees strong enough to handle the stairs. 
 
They're back at the care center now.  I'm sure mom is wiped out.  I'm glad she was able to get out and attend the dedication.
 
Sophie and I haven't seen her much this week.  We're both fighting terrible colds, and we definitely do not want to share with her.
Mom told me that she had climbed 4 stairs in physical therapy on Friday and I could tell she was very proud of herself.  I'm sure she's feeling a bit discouraged from the "trial run" at home, but I know she'll work even harder now since she's had a teaser of being home, even if it was just for a visit.
 
Keep her in your prayers.
Thank you!


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Saturday, March 7, 2009

Mom seems to be doing about the same. She's still having the "intestinal troubles" - but they think it's due to the antibiotics she is on. She's frustrated with dad because he brings in things he thinks she should try to fix the problem. He Mr. Fix-it and that's just who he is....but it's driving mom bonkers. I know he just wants to help. I can see the frustration from both sides. Oy...

Mom is still going to dialysis three times a week. She says by the time she gets back and has lunch she is exhausted....and then here comes the physical terrorists. I think she's still doing well, it just is going to take quite a while to get back her strength.

She is very grateful for all of you who visit, call or send notes to her. It still helps to lift her spirits.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Sorry, it's been a while.  Mom is still plugging along.  She is working hard at building her strength and walking with her walker.  She is still going to dialysis.  Her kidneys are working better and her legs look good (meaning they're not swollen).  I don't know how much longer she'll have to do dialysis.  She's been suffering from a bout of "intestinal distress" - which is going around the care center.  She said she was feeling a bit better.  Good news.
 
Anyone who would like to add to this blog, send me an email.  It would be helpful.  I'm still not feeling well, and don't want to get around mom.  I don't want to pass anything else to her.


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Saturday, February 21, 2009

Thank you

Thank you Uncle Cliff & Aunt Betty for posting your feelings and observations of your visit today with mom.

I have been ill due to severe back pain and lack of sleep the past few weeks and haven't been able to visit mom at all. I hated not seeing her. I love her so much and want to make sure she has all that she needs to be happy, comfortable and positive, so she can get better and come home soon. I always want to make sure she has at least one visit from someone each day, even if it has to be me (& Sophie).

Sophie and I did get to visit her this evening. She still seemed to be in good spirits. She was putting me to work writing birthday and thank you cards for her. She's still thinking of others with all that she's dealing with. What a woman!

She continually tells me how grateful she is to everyone who visits or calls her, or just drops a note in the mail. That really helps buoy her up and keeps her going.

I'm grateful to all of you, too, for your love, prayers and thoughtfulness for mom. She really is such a special lady, and I love her!

Thank you!!!!

Here are a few photos from recent visitors:

You can't really tell, but Sophie has bejewelled her face. She's such a dolly.

Making herself at home....err, actually she's just warming up grandma's bed for her.


Visiting with Sharon and Sophie (last week)

Visiting G'ma at the hospital. They thought it was sooo cool to get to wear "doctors masks."

Saturday visit (February 21, 2009)

A visit today showed Jean to be in reasonably upbeat spirits.  Her foot edema is now such that she can get her shoes and foot brace on.  Initially it was much harder for her to walk with shoes as apposed to stocking feet as it required her to lift her left foot more.  However, she is slowly getting stronger and is able to "walk a lot."  Her worst ambulation problem now is rising from the toilet.  This may be helped with a toilet seat elevator that is commercially available.  Kidney dialysis continues and a further planned study may allow a better prediction of when that need will end. 

It was pleasing to see Jean's typical buoyant spirit and will to overcome.  A substantial work effort remains to allow her to achieve the level of self care necessary to return home.  The love and support of family and friends is important at this pivotal time. 

Jean has always been a wonderful sister and friend.  The continuing level of visits by family and friends attests to the esteem in which she is held.  We add our expression of deep love and respect for she and Bob and appreciate our friendship with them.

With love,

Cliff & Betty Harman

Monday, February 16, 2009

Saw mom this afternoon. She had just come back from PT. She said she was exhausted. She was too tired to eat dinner in the dining room. The brought her dinner in to her.

Dad hurt his back helping mom move in her bed. I think he could use a few extra prayers to help him out.

Thanks

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Mom's been progressing little by little this week. She even said that they told her her kidneys are working better. Hopefully, she'll be off dialysis before long. She's continued to walk a few steps during her therapy sessions. Her feet are still swollen, so she can't wear her walking brace on her bad foot. But, she's still trying to walk anyway. She's doing great.

Today she said she wasn't feeling too well. Jenny, Curt and and kids came to visit. Dad was there, too. Dad hurt his back earlier this week trying to help mom shift in bed. Not a good sign. Don't want both of them out of commission. Mom said they went down to the library where there's more room to visit. Mom had dad lay down on the couch. Mom said she started feeling light headed and "weird." They took her back to her room and had the nurse get her back in bed. The nurse was checking her out, had the head on her bed lower than her feet, thinking that would help. She still felt funny. Finally, the nurse came in to check her blood sugar levels. Whoa, they were almost up to 400. Not good, not good at all.

Today's lesson: Blood sugar levels.

Question: What is the normal range for blood sugar levels?

Answer: In a normal individual we measure blood sugar under different circumstances. What we call fasting blood sugar or blood glucose levels is usually done six to eight hours after the last meal. So it's most commonly done before breakfast in the morning; and the normal range there is 70 to 100 milligrams per deciliter. Now when you eat a meal, blood sugar generally rises and in a normal individual it usually does not get above a 135 to 140 milligrams per deciliter. So there is a fairly narrow range of blood sugar throughout the entire day.

So, if blood sugar gets up above 180 to 200, then it exceeds the capacity of the kidneys to reabsorb the glucose and we begin to spill glucose into the urine. And if it gets way up high, up in the 400s or even 500s, it can be associated with some alteration in mental function. And in this situation, if it persists for a long time, we can actually see mental changes as well.

Fortunately, They were able to give mom insulin right away. She was resting well tonight, but still a little wiped out. I hope they can get her blood sugar levels under control soon.

Mom says thank you to the Primary, Young Women and Young Men for the great posters they made her. They are hanging on the wall in her room. She says they really lift her spirits when she sees them.

She's still doing dialysis Monday, Wednesday and Friday's for now. That's from 9am to 12pm. She's usually back by noon. Her weekly schedule is still listed below.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Look who's walkin' now

Sorry this is sideways. I couldn't get the blasted thing to rotate! Look at what mom did today.

She was cruizin down the hallway! Way to go, momma! So proud of you!

Grandma,

 

We just wanted to write a quick note to let you know that we are thinking about you and praying for a speedy recovery.  We missed seeing you at your home in Sandy when we visited this last weekend when Mom was in town.

 

We love you!

 

Vaughan and Rachel

Monday, February 9, 2009

Yes it's been a couple of days since I've posted...a thousand pardons.
 
Mom started her dialysis on Friday.  She said it went okay, but she froze.  They didn't tell her to bring blankets with her, and they didn't have any extra ones there for her.  How crazy is that?  I'm thinking they should have plenty on hand for times like that.  It can't be good for the patients to get too cold. Anyway, mom said she just shivered and shivered all day after that.  Not to worry, we have her well stocked for today's treatment.
 
Mom's been really disoriented, mentally, lately.  Saturday was a tough day.  She was really confused about dates, events and conversations.  She was really upset at feeling like she wasn't remembering anything right.  We are hoping that it's a combination of dialysis and her oxygen levels being a little low.  She was really struggling.
 
Sunday, mom felt a bit better.  I saw her in the afternoon, after church.  She was sitting in her wheelchair with her feet up.  She was trying to get the swelling in her feet to go down.  Hopefully, dialysis will help with that. 
 
Mom said her weekly schedule will be somewhat like this:
 
Monday/Wednesday/Friday 
Breakfast 8a
Dialysis 9a - 12p
Lunch 12p-1p
Therapy is in the afternoon, but there isn't a set time
Dinner 5p
 
Tuesday/Thursday/Weekends
Breakfast 8a
No Dialysis
Lunch 12p
Therapy - afternoon
Dinner 5p
 
She said you can come in the afternoons.  You can also go with her to therapy and cheer her on.  If you show up a mealtime, you can go with her, and they'll even feed you, if you like.
 
She called both Jenny and me this morning at 7am to tell us they took out the "breathing tube".....which really meant they took out the feeding tube.  She was pretty excited about it.
 
Please continue to keep her in your prayers.  Pray that her memory will be restored, along with the many other things we're praying for.


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Friday, February 6, 2009

Little set back

Mom went to see the kidney doctor yesterday and she got some not so happy news.  Her kidneys aren't functioning as well as they should.  So, she has to start dialysis again...three times a week.  She was discouraged yesterday, understandably.  She's a trooper, though.  She'll get through this.  She really feels that this won't be a permanent thing.  She was "promised too many things" in her blessings.  Dad is looking into home dialysis treatment/machines (just incase).  I think that if she had to continue dialysis for a while, and she was able to go home, the home dialysis machines would be so much easier for her.
 
Marla Crestani came to see mom and gave her a makeover.  She cut and colored her hair.  She looks just beautiful.  Thank you, Marla for your thoughtfulness.  Mom feels more like her old self again.
 
Mom will find out the dialysis schedule (three times weekly - three hours each time), and her PT schedule, and we'll come up with a visitors schedule.  She thought it might has to be an afternoon/evening thing.  She's so thankful for all the visits and calls she receives.  I know it helps keep her spirits up.
 
A big thanks to the primary kids and their leaders.  Mom loves her get well poster.  It's taped up on the wall above her bed.
 
Please, in your prayers, pray for mom's kidneys to function correctly so she won't have to be on dialysis very long.
 
Love to all,
Sandy



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It's a sign....

Hi Grandma!
 
I had a dream that you were back and home walking around and helping me with something on your computer and I was so happy to have you back home! It was simple, but I think it's a good omen :) Can't wait to have you back home! Keep up the good work!

Love you! Michelle

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Hi to all,
 
Kacy and I went to visit Mom (grandma) yesterday and spent a few hours there.  She is a popular lady!!  We arrived at about 12:30 and left at 2:45.  We got to spend a solid half an hour alone with her.  She has lots of visitors and phone calls.  Not to mention the workers coming and going.  It's a wonder she gets any rest.
 
It was so good to see her looking so great!  Way to go Mom!!  I know that she doesn't agree that she looks that good, but she really really does!  And I spoke personally with the dietician and she said that they will be taking out the feeding tube because she is now eating well enough on her own.
 
Mom has been working hard with physical therapy as well.  I know that she gets a little discouraged at times but, I have all the faith in the world that she will overcome this challenge.  And it is a great challenge!  It is not easy with her bad foot to feel secure standing up.  Who can blame her?
 
Mom, I know you can do this!  You are a strong lady!  Hang in.  You will be rewarded.
 
When Kacy and I went to visit yesterday at the rehab, we brought our funny little dog Noodle.  She is a little "needy" and likes to be with us all the time.  As it turns out, the residents of the hospital like to pet her and she was mistaken for a Therapy dog.  Not such a bad thing having her tag along after all.
 
We cant wait to come and visit again.  We also cant wait until we can come and visit you at home.
 
All our love,
 
Jen and the fam-damily.

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Tuesday,
Mom said she was having a better day than the day before.  She slept pretty good then when she woke up she was anxious again about PT.  She said that PT went fairly well and they decided to do it only once daily for right now, until she gets a little stronger.  I think that calmed her a bit.  I visited her on my lunch hour (about 2pm) and she was napping.  I didn't stay.  I was sure she was exhausted.
 
Wednesday,
Mom was sitting in her chair.  Jenny and Kacy were visiting when I came in.  Mom had been sitting for a while she said.  I noticed a sign on the wall that said something to the fact that they were limiting her fluids.  I asked what that was about.  I guess they were giving her saline iv's and she had been drinking quite a bit of water yesterday (ust as she was directed to).  Apparently, she has too much fluid in her body now, which is throwing off her electrolytes.  So now they're restricing her water intake and giving her salty foods...which is funny, since she's not eaten like that in years and years. They're trying to draw water out of her body now. 
 
Anyway, she said that she had another good night's sleep and then when she woke up she started worrying about PT.  I think she just has to get a few more days of PT under her belt and she'll feel better about it.
 
I just spoke with mom and she said she had a pretty good PT session. She said she even ate three meals today.  Yay, mom.  If she can eat really well, and not need the feeding tube for three days, they'll take it out.  Keep your fingers crossed.
 
Keep her in your prayers, too.
Thanks.


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Tuesday, February 3, 2009

To Our Dearest Sister Jean:

February 3, 2009
 
Dear Jean,
 
    We love you so very much our dear sister.  We have seen you fight through some pretty rough days, and we are so thrilled with the progress that you are making.  Now is the time that you have to fight a little harder to get your strength and life back.  We know that you are a fighter and that you can do what you need to do.  It thrills me to call and be able to talk to you again, We hope that you know that we are with you and we will do any thing that we can to help you through this.
 
    We love your dear family, Bob, Sandy, Jennie, Randy and Gladys and all of your sons and daughters and grandchildren who have been so supportive of their dear mother and wife,  they all love you so much.
 
    We love you our Dear Jean, We pray for your health to be restored.  I remember those beautiful blessings that you received and the wonderful promises that you received, so hang in there.  I know that you will be able to rise above this illness.
 
    May our Fathers blessings be with you through your recovery.  We will be up to see you in the next few days.
 
 
                                                                Love and Best Wishes
 
                                                                Brian and Bonnie.

Monday, February 2, 2009

Sunday -
Mom was doing pretty well yesterday. She was sitting up in her wheelchair for most of the afternoon. She even sat in the family room at Highland watching part of the superbowl with Jenny, Curt & their kids, me, Sophie and papa. She was even eating her dinner with us.

Monday -
Mom is really anxious and nervous today. She is worried about having to walk, and is afraid that if she's not doing more they'll make her leave Highland. She was just shaking tonight. Poor thing. Dad and I were trying to reassure her that she was doing exactly what she should be doing, and as long as she was doing something they wouldn't "kick her out" as she thought they were going to do. The nurse came in after dinner and was prepping a bag of saline. She said that mom just needed a bit of fluid to help her kidneys, because they weren't quite producing like they should. Mom started to cry. She was saying she thought she was drinking enough. The nurse was trying to reassure her that she was doing everything right, but that her kidneys just needed a little bit of help. Poor momma, she's just so worried about everything. I kept trying to tell her that she was doing great. Little baby steps were going to get her home, not huge leaps and bounds. I'm hoping that with a couple more PT days under her belt she'll feel more confident and less anxious. Please keep her in your prayers.

Also, please visit her. I think she really needs to see familiar faces who love and support her.

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Saw mom yesterday around 2:30. She was napping soundly so I didn't want to wake her. Dad came in and mom woke up. So we chatted for a bit. Her bed sore is getting better. She is doing her PT two times a day. She's pretty tired but wants to keep working at it so she can come home. She's still trying to keep a positive attitude, but I'm sure it's hard when your body won't do what your mind wants it to.

Friday, January 30, 2009

Mom is progressing well. She's off oxygen all together. Yay. She is eating well. The PT folks are getting her up and working her, which is great. She is really weak in her upper body, so she is having a very difficult time pulling herself up. She has a hard time with the walker because of the lack of upper body strength.

She wanted me to tell all of you that she really wants visits. It helps pass the time while she's there. She said that even if she's in PT, the girls at the desk will tell you where she is. Since she's not having to do dialysis (which was really wiping her out) she's not requiring as much down time to recoup her strength. So please visit her. If you need to know how to find her please email me (sandybready@hotmail.com). I don't want to post too much info on the care center, since this blog is open to the world.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Mom is settled in at Highland Care Center. She feels like this is going to be really good. She's staying positive, which is great! She is in a room with another lady - her name is Afton (really nice).

She was eating her dinner this evening - they even brought dinner for dad. How nice is that? She said it was really good - so much better than the hospital food. She was doing a really good job on her dinner, too. All good news. Sophie even tried the chicken - she says it was "really good. mom, we need to go home and make some of that."

Mom was fitted with a temporary brace for her foot. She said she was doing pretty good today. She's still weak, but is getting a little stronger bit by bit every day. Afton, her roommate, was telling us tonight that the physical therapists really work with the patients, to get them strong so they can get home. Good to know.

I don't know what her PT schedule is yet, and neither does she. She definitely doesn't want her visits from everyone to stop. I think for now, she needs the companionship more than she needs to be left alone. I know she's trying to stay really strong and positive. I felt like she was trying to convince both of us today that it was going to be a really good thing being there. I know it will, but it must be hard being in a new, strange place with people you don't know.

Please continue to keep her in your prayers. She's come such a long way in the last three or four weeks, and she has a ways to go still.

Thanks!

Mom's on the move....

11:45am - Wednesday

I just called to talk to mom and they were preparing her for transport to Highland Care Center. She should be there and settled soon.

Way to go mom.....you're coming along beautifully!

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Mom was doing pretty good today. She said she was feeling a little bit stronger. She got up out of bed and did well. She felt like she lost a lot of ground the last few days having had to stay down because of her low blood count. Today she felt better, like she was moving forward again. She was sitting up doing her arm exercises when I visited her this afternoon.

She is going to be transferred tomorrow (Wednesday). She'll be going to Highland Care Center in Holladay. She thinks it'll happen in the afternoon. I also found out today that they've discontinued, for now, her dialysis treatments. Her kidneys are working! Yeah!! They'll be watching this and will re-evaluate later. I hope and pray that will be the last of her hospital visits for a long time.

My mom is so sweet and has so many people who love her. She would never bring this up, and would kick my behind (if she could), but I feel I have to. We're all grateful for everyone who has come to visit her. One little problem is that she's had so many visitors some days that she really hasn't had a lot of down time to rest. So, I'm asking that maybe we keep a few hours during the day blocked out for "nap time" or something to that effect. I'll follow up with her when she's settled at Highland C.C. and post something tomorrow evening. I know she won't want the visits to stop, but if we can keep the visits from streaming all day long - as they have been lately - she can have some time to rest during the day and build up her strength.

Again, we're all grateful for the love and concern shown to mom and our family. She is most definitely our angel mother who is loved by so many. Thank you, too, for your prayers on her behalf. They are still working.

Love to all of you.

Monday, January 26, 2009

I saw mom yesterday afternoon.  She was sitting up in her bed trying to finish a serving of "Boost."  She said she was feeling pretty good. Her physical therapist had gotten her to stand up three times - and no falling.  Yay, mom.  She said she even sat up in a chair for a few hours.
 
I just spoke with her this morning. She said she had a good night sleep.  They're still turning her often because of the bedsore, so they gave her a sleeping pill.  She said she was eating her breakfast, very slowly, and that she wasn't nauseous and actually has an appetite.  Awesome!!!
 
She sounds good.  I'll drop over on my lunch time and check on her.
 
Until then....


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Saturday, January 24, 2009

Sitting here with mom, dad, Sophie, Jenny, Curt, Braden, Rylie and Kacy. Yes, we all have masks on. The kids think it's the coolest thing. What a sight! Arent't they the cutest?




Mom looks pretty good. She's staying in bed today. She is having a few fresh pints of blood pumped into her. Her hemoglobin is low. She hasn't gotten up to walk. Mostly because she's so weak, and she's fallen three times now. She's afraid she's going to fall now, so she's a little apprehensive about walking. So, they decided to give her some blood to help give her a boost and get that blood count back up.

She's not eating much, if anything, today. Her stomach is really bloated and she just doesn't want anything.

My two cents on the food & eating issue: Mom doesn't need to be hounded about eating. She knows she needs to eat, and wants to. But, something is wreaking havoc in her bowels and makes it very difficult for her to eat. She gets nauseous and is so bloated that she is in pain. So, might I suggest that we don't try to "help" her eat anymore and maybe not even bring it up, either. I think she really just needs positive support and encouragement....and no discussions on her eating habits right now.

I showed her her blog and she Loved it! She loved the comments you all left for her too!

She's had wonderful visits from so many family and friends. She's thankful to all of you who stop by to visit her. Her nurses tell her that she has the most visitors they've ever seen in the hospital. She's very popular. I just say that she has so many people who love her!

Well, the dialysis folks just came in, so we're going to head out.

More to come.....

Friday, January 23, 2009

Ooops, I missed a day. Sorry.

Mom was doing okay yesterday. She was eating a bit more and feeling okay. She had dialysis yesterday and said she slept quite a bit.

Today she was about the same. They started giving her a supplement drink (Boost) to help her get in the calories she needs. She said it tasted pretty good, but her stomach wasn't doing too well. She was having a lot of gas pains. She wasn't sure if it was related to that or something else.

She said she had a really good night sleep last night. She didn't want anyone coming in and waking her up. I don't blame her a bit.
They're still rotating her quite often because of the sore on her backside. She says she thinks it's doing okay.

Dad's been busy checking out a list of rehab facilities (in person) so he can make sure mom will be going somewhere that will be able to meet her needs and care for her correctly. Mom says he went to one today that he liked, and they will even transport mom to dialysis treatments and doctors appointments. She couldn't remember which one it was. I hope it's a nice, clean, newer one with smart people working there who will take care of my mom like she's their mom. Know what I mean? =o)

I guess that's all for today.



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Wednesday, January 21, 2009

GREAT NEWS! Mom is out of the ICU!! They moved her this afternoon to the Heart and Lung Center (the tower just south of the patient tower where she was). She is in room 310. Her immune system is still weakened, so wearing masks while visiting her is still required. Still no children, until we can get her a bit stronger.

She seems to be doing a bit better. She still needs to work on eating more. Please pray that her appetite, and stomach, will increase so she can eat more and get stronger.

Thanks for all your ongoing prayers, visits, and concern for her.
11:30am - Wed 1/21
Just spoke to mom. She sounded a bit tired, but she said she was okay. She had been up for a while, took a walk, and even had a shower, too. She's back in bed now. She said she was going to try and get up a couple more times today.

I asked her how her neck was feeling with the new catheter in there. She said it was fine. They took the old catheters out from the right side of her neck this morning. That couldn't have felt good. She said it didn't hurt. What a trooper she is.

I asked her if she'd had breakfast. She hadn't. She said the pills they give her still make her nauseous. So today they tried crushing them up and putting them through her feeding tube. Well, the tube got clogged. So, they tried crushing them and adding them to orange juice. She said by the time she finished the orange juice, she couldn't eat anything. Hopefully, lunch will go more smoothly for her.

I'll go see her on my lunch time and give an update later.

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Mom was doing okay this afternoon. She had the procedure where they place a Tunnel Dialysis Catheter on the left side of her neck/chest. They insert the catheter under the skin, kind of by her heart and run it up to a vein in her neck. At least, that's what I understand it. Mom said she was doing okay, but it "took the starch out of me today." She said she had to be awake for it, but they gave her something for pain. She said it kind of hurt because they were pushing to get the catheter up to where it needed to go and they were having trouble because of some scar tissue from a biopsy she had a few years ago. She said that hurt more than anything else, but that she was feeling better.

They didn't do dialysis today. They were going to wait and do it tomorrow.

She didn't eat anything today. She thinks its the medicine they're giving her that is making her nauseous. Poor mommy.

REALLY IMPORTANT: One of mom's doctors (I don't remember which one) said that her bone marrow isn't producing new cells like it should.

Today's biology lesson: Bone marrow is the flexible tissue found in the hollow interior of bones. In adults, marrow in large bones produces new blood cells, i.e. red blood cells (the body's principal means of delivering oxygen to the body tissues via the blood), white blood cells (the body's defense against both infectious disease and foreign materials), and platelets (basically leads to the formation of blood clots - which, most of the time, is a good thing).

What does this mean? This means that her immune system is depressed or weakened. Therefore, they have asked that there be no visits from children (I'm assuming under 12 years of age - just like the shock/trauma icu rules stated when she was on the 5th floor). Also, anyone who may have a cold or other illness, or has been around anyone with a cold or illness, should wear a mask when visiting mom.

Mom is really concerned that this will keep her visitors away. She doesn't want that to happen. Visitors really help her days pass more enjoyably (just not quickly enough though). I would just suggest to use your best judgment.

As always, thank you for your prayers, kind words and visits to mom.

Monday, January 19, 2009

Saw mom at lunch and after work. This afternoon she seemed to be feeling okay. She was a little nauseated from her lunch. They gave her something for it. She had her plasmapheresis this morning. Everything went well. Her nurse case worker came in and talked to mom and dad a bit. She said that mom may be moved out of ICU soon - a couple of days? Stay tuned.

Sophie and I stopped by after work to see mom. She was awake and watching a movie. They've begun turning mom on her side. She's developing a small sore on her backside (she'll be really happy I'm sharing this tidbit). She said she was nauseated again. I asked if it was from dinner. She said she hadn't eaten and didn't want to, and that she'd been nauseated most of the day. She said she thought it was because she wasn't getting up and walking. She's a little scared since falling down the other day. I told her that her nurses (all the male ones) are going to be really watching her to make sure that wouldn't happen again, and not to worry about that. The more important thing was to eat what she could, whenever she could so she can build up her strength.

Mom said that they are taking out the tubes in her neck and will be putting in another on on the other side of her neck, with something running under her skin with a port (or something) for the dialysis. They'll be doing this tomorrow morning. I'll have to get more info and update later. She'll also be having another dialysis treatment tomorrow.

I think that's all for today.
Until tomorrow.

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Sunday p.m.

Mom seemed to be in better spirits today. She said she was feeling better. She said that she had been really discouraged, and a bit depressed the last couple of days. While Sophie and I were there she was having another dialysis treatment. Everything seemed to go well during that. She didn't eat much today, so they had to feed her through her feeding tube. I wish there was something we could find that she would enjoy eating. Her diabetic condition (brought on by the steroids - I think that's right) has made it hard for her to have most things that taste good to her....and most everyone else would feel the same way, I'm sure.

Thanks to all her visitors today. She just loves seeing all of you.
Keep praying for her.
Thank you from the bottom of all of our hearts.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

My oldest brother, Rob, and his family made it down from Washington state last night. They came in today to see mom. It was good to see them.

Mom said she didn't eat much breakfast and just a little bit of lunch. So, I decided I would become the food boss. I helped her eat her dinner. Well, I guess it was a little too much, too fast. She didn't keep it down. She was so discouraged after that. It just broke my heart. I felt like a jerk, too.

She also said that she went for a little walk today, but her leg buckled under her and she went down. Luckily, she had three big nurses right there with her, and they had her back up on her feet lickey-split. Her knee was hurting a bit.

Sophie, dad and I stayed until about 8:00pm. We were all pretty pooped. We left mom watching a movie. I hope she has a good night.

Love you mom!
As promised, here's the photo of the beautiful basket from Jolene & Jeff Hattori. Pretty, eh?


Here are more of the beautiful arrangements mom's received. I'll have to ask her who they're from. I can't remember.

3:15pm, Saturday, January 17

Sitting in mom's room watching her sleep while she is having her plasmapheresis treatment. She is really swollen today (water). I asked the nurse about it and he said that she hasn't had a dialysis treatment today, and they stopped her lasix meds, which help get rid of the water. It worries me. She is a little incoherent, but that may just be the benadryl they gave her. She'll be napping for a couple of hours. Sophie and I are going to hang around here until she wakes up.

I love you mom. Hang in there and keep fighting the fight!

Friday, January 16, 2009

Mom seemed to be doing well today. She had another dialysis treatment this morning, with better results. Her MRI showed, if I understood Randy's explaination, a small spot on her parietal lobe (the side of her head). Doctors believe it's most likely a result of the vasculitis and not a stroke. Good news.

Mom said she slept all night last night. Exactly what she needed. While I was visiting her this afternoon, she even took a little walk...from one side of her room all the way across and out into the hallway, about 5-6 steps into the hallway. Good work, mom!!

She was excitedly awaiting Rob, Lori and their family to arrive. She was telling her nurses they were coming, and bragging about her son the pilot. She's proud of you, Rob. Actually, she's proud of all her kiddies. =o)

Mom received a beautiful flower basket sent by Jolene and Jeff Hattori, friends from Kennewick. Very beautiful. Mom says "thank you so much, they're beautiful." The delivery person delivered them to her room and said "boy, I usually only deliver these to people who have died." Huh?! Well, she's far from dead, and they don't look anything like a funeral arrangement. In fact....they're almost "exotic." =o) Stay tuned for a photo.

Thank you Jolene and Jeff.

Goodnite, all. Until tomorrow.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

I saw mom this afternoon.  She was sitting up in a wheenchair next to her bed.  She was doing okay.  She had started dialysis last night and had an adverse reaction to it.  Her doctors say it isn't uncommon for first time dialysis patients to experience a reaction like she had.  I won't go into it.  She doesn't want me to.
 
I stopped by again this evening. She said that all she's wanted to do today was sleep.  In fact, she dozed off while we were talking.  I'm guessing her less that perfect restful nights have caught up with her.  Around 8pm she was taken back down to radiology for another MRI.  Lucky mom.  She doesn't think so.  She hates them. They make her back hurt. 
 
Thanks to everyone who stops by, calls, or says a prayer for her.


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Wednesday, January 14, 2009

11:00am Wednesday 1/14/09

I just spoke to mom on the phone. She sounded good. She said they took the blow by mask off and put a nasal cannula on and she's at 40% oxygen.

She said she had a good night sleep - slept all night. She also was given some more blood - to replenish what was lost when she was bleeding into her lung (I assume).

She got to actually eat breakfast. She had oatmeal (she said she choked on it), peaches, an egg and yogurt (all three went down okay). She has trouble with thin liquids (water, milk). She said they brought in "thick water" for her (??? whatever that is) and she said it doesn't taste very good. Hmmmm, I wonder why? =o)

She's been sitting up in the chair for a couple of hours this morning. No plasmapheresis this morning. She said they are going to try skipping a day, so she will be having it tomorrow.

That's it for this mornings report.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Visited with mom on my lunch break. Doctors had just finished up with an exam to check her throat and her being able to swallow. I guess they take a camera-thing and run it up her nose and down her throat and watch her swallow various types of food. They gave her something with blue dye in it. When I walked in her lips were blue and I got a bit concerned, wondering if her oxygen levels were high enough. I guess she did well enough because she says she gets to eat (chew) her breakfast tomorrow. Yum-yum. That's got to be high point for her this week.

Her stats were looking good this afternoon. She was in good spirits.

Dad, Bonnie & Brian were visiting her, too, while I was there. She was enjoying listening to her audio book, and trying to watch the movies I left for her.

Dad left her cell phone with her, but I, personally, would caution too many phone calls (nope, not a medical opinion....just my opinion). When she talks too much she doesn't get the oxygen she needs. I saw this first hand today. She gets tired and has to stop for a few minutes and just breath in the oxygen from her mask. I spoke to her on the phone and she kept moving the mask so she could talk. I'm pretty sure her doctors don't want her doing that too much, either. =o)

Hang in there momma. We love you! You're doing GREAT!!

Saw mom about 8:30-ish.  She was bright eyed like only mom can be...under the circumstances.  She's such a trooper.  They were getting her ready for her "treatment" - plasmapheresis.  
Jon was able to stop by on his way back from the airport.  I know mom loves visitors...especially her children - and dad, too.  =o)

Anyway, her heart rate was still in regular sinus rhythm.  Yeah, way to go mom.  She was able to get a shower this morning.  She says she feels good after her shower.
She is listening to an audio book, and watching movies to help pass the time being in "ICU prison."  If you have a movie you think she might like to watch, drop on by.

Again, thanks to all of you for your prayers and visits.

ps...Linkous family (Tom, Kevin and Kit), mom has not stopped talking about your beautiful song you sang for her.  She just LOVED it!  I'm sad I missed it.  Even the nurses have commented on
the wonderful gift you gave everyone yesterday.  Mom says you didn't hear a sound coming from the nurses desk while you sang.
Thank you for the beautiful gift you gave her.  She says you can come anytime....as long as you have a song to sing to her.

Love to all of you,
Sandy

Monday, January 12, 2009

Hi to all. This is Jenny. I just wanted to share a couple of pictures that are near and dear to my heart. I think that we all think the world of Jean Bready and I just wanted to share these with you all. We are not used to seeing our mom and grandma sick because she was never really sick in her life until now. This has been a trying experience. Momma, we are praying for you each night when we say our family prayers. And you are in my thoughts constantly throughout the day. I wished we lived closer so I could be there with you more that I am. I do what I can. The hardest thing for me has been that I cant just pick up the phone and call to chat with her. She has been a wonderful friend to me, not just a mom. So get well soon! We all love you down here in Santaquin, UT.

My mommy. This is a picture of me (jenny) and my mom and dad. I can remember when I was small, that I always loved to be with my mom. I can remember the I always wanted to sit on her lap. She was so loving to me. I am her favorite you know. I think she makes each one of us believe that we are her favorite.

My mom, my children's grandma. She loves these kids so much and they sure know it. They are pretty sure that they are her favorites. I think the other grandkids might not agree because she makes them feel the same way too. She is the greatest grandma in the whole world and we love her!

I saw mom this morning.  When I got to her room she was sitting up in bed.  She said she was doing good and that she had a better night than the night before (still didn't sleep that great, she said).
I finally remembered to bring in clippers.  She's been asking me to clip her toe nails for a week now.  After we were done she said "that feels so good."  If anyone wants to bring a file and polish (preferably clear), feel free to pamper her some more and paint her toe and fingernails.  I know she'd love it.

She is still in a normal sinus rhythm (normal heart beat) and her oxygen in her mask is down to 50% - way to go mom!   They were prepping her for the plasmapheresis while I was there.  They give her Benadryl before that begins, so I'm sure she'll get a little nap in.

I am loading audio books on an ipod for mom.  If anyone has a book or music you'd like to share with her, let me know, or leave it with her and I'll pick it up and add it to the ipod for her.  She'd enjoy that.  She's also a little more interested in the t.v. now.  They have a dvd player in the room, so if you have a movie you think she might enjoy watching, bring it on!

She is also able to have flowers.  Thank you Jeanette England for the beautiful arrangement you sent over.  Mom just loves it!

Thanks to everyone for all you're doing for mom - prayers are working!

Love to you all





Sunday, January 11, 2009

Our ward family fasted for mom this week, and after sacrament meeting was over, Bishop Hunt asked Randy to come forward and update everyone on moms condition. Randy did so, beautifully I might add. Afterwards, our bishop asked everyone who was able to to kneel down so that we all, as a ward family, could break our fast together in prayer. It was such a beautiful experience. You could feel the spirit so strongly there all around us. Bishop Hunt gave such a beautiful prayer on mom's behalf. I, and most likely many others, was brought to tears. I'm not amazed at the outpouring of love towards mom. She's that kind of person. Everyone loves her! I only hope that I can become half the woman she is.

We are grateful to all of you for your fasting and prayers on her behalf. She is doing better because of this.

Thank you.
Update: Sunday 1/11 10am

Mom is improving (baby steps - remember). She is back to a normal sinus rhythm (heart beat) and her heart rate is back down between 70-80 (really good). She was sitting up this morning, for about an hour, and even got in a shower! That must have felt wonderful and exhausting at the same time. Her doctor, Dr. Goddard, said she is looking better - making progress.
She is still on a blow-by mask at 70% oxygen and her oxygen stats are at 90%. A blow by mask is just one of those masks that fit tightly to the face.
They were starting the plasmapheresis, so she will be taking a nice little nap during that. They give her bendaryl to start the process.

She loves and wants visitors..within moderation. 4th floor respiratory icu - you still need to request entry by pushing the "little black button." She is in room 405.

Thank you for your prayers and fasting. She's going to get through this.

Keeping the faith......

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Mom is in Room 405 in the respiratory icu on the 4th floor.   Dad said they even had her stand up and take a couple of steps to the side.
Amazing! 
I've not had a turn to see her yet....but I'm waiting patiently.
 
Keep on keeping the faith!!!!!




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Update 4:30pm Sat 1/10
 
Mom is being moved downstairs to the 4th floor respiratory icu/therapy unit.  This, to me, seems like another step forward!
 
I'll post more when I know more.
 
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Today is a GREAT day. Mom was taken off the ventilator!!! Thank you to all of you (us) who have been praying and fasting for her.
At this moment they are finishing up the plasmapheresis treatment for today. It takes 130 minutes to complete. She is so happy to be off the ventilator and to be able "to lick my lips," she says. She is on a breathing mask with 70% oxygen, but that's to be expected.
Today she is in atrial flutter. Atrial flutter is a relatively common atrial tachyarrhythmia. After atrial fibrillation (which is what mom was experiencing), atrial flutter is the most significant of the atrial tachyarrhythmias. Patients at highest risk include those with long-standing hypertension (mom has had pulmonary hypertension - or so they believe - for years)...among other conditions. Randy says that the docs are discussing options....contacting a cardiac specialist, cardiac meds, or possibly shocking her heart into regular sinus rhythmn.
She is in good spirits, which is great!

Keep the faith.......
Dear Sandy,

Thank you for your efforts at communication. We are pleased with
Jean's progress and recognize that it is a long road ahead. Our
fasting & prayers and love continue.

With love,

Uncle Cliff & Aunt Betty


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Friday, January 9, 2009

4:00pm 1/9
 
Mom is still in arrhythmia.  Her oxygen levels are still at 40% and her PEEP is down to 6.  Her heart rate is high (127) and BP is a bit high, but that is all due to the arrhythmia.  They've given her the meds to help get her to convert back to normal sinus rhythm.
 
Right now they are preparing her for plasmapheresis.  Here is an explanation of what that is:
They've ordered one a day for 5 days.  The procedure lasts about 1 1/2 - 2 hours.
 
Definition
Plasmapheresis is a blood purification procedure used to treat several autoimmune diseases. It is also known as therapeutic plasma exchange.
 
Purpose
In an autoimmune disease, the immune system attacks the body's own tissues. In many autoimmune diseases, the chief weapons of attack are antibodies, proteins that circulate in the bloodstream until they meet and bind with the target tissue. Once bound, they impair the functions of the target, and signal other immune components to respond as well.
 
Plasmapheresis is used to remove antibodies from the bloodstream, thereby preventing them from attacking their targets. It does not directly affect the immune system's ability to make more antibodies, and therefore may only offer temporary benefit. This procedure is most useful in acute, self-limited disorders such as Guillain-Barré syndrome, or when chronic disorders, such as myasthenia gravis, become more severe in symptoms. In these instances, a rapid improvement could save the patient's life. Neurologic diseases comprise 90% of the diseases that could profit from plasmapheresis.
 
Description
The basic procedure consists of removal of blood, separation of blood cells from plasma, and return of these blood cells to the body's circulation, diluted with fresh plasma or a substitute. Because of concerns over viral infection and allergic reaction, fresh plasma is not routinely used. Instead, the most common substitute is saline solution with sterilized human albumin protein. During the course of a single session, two to three liters of plasma is removed and replaced.
Plasmapheresis requires insertion of a venous catheter, either in a limb or central vein. Central veins allow higher flow rates and are more convenient for repeat procedures, but are more often the site of complications, especially bacterial infection.
When blood is outside the body, it must be treated to prevent it from clotting. While most of the anticlotting agent is removed from the blood during treatment, some is returned to the patient.
Three procedures are available:
  • "Discontinuous flow centrifugation." Only one venous catheter line is required. Approximately 300 ml of blood is removed at a time and centrifuged to separate plasma from blood cells.



  • "Continuous flow centrifugation." Two venous lines are used. This method requires slightly less blood volume to be out of the body at any one time.

  • "Plasma filtration." Two venous lines are used. The pasma is filtered using standard hemodialysis equipment. It requires less than 100 ml of blood to be outside the body at one time.

A single plasmapheresis session may be effective, although it is more common to have several sessions per week over the course of two weeks or more.
 
Normal results
Plasmapheresis is an effective temporary treatment for:
  • Guillain-Barré syndrome (an acute neurological disorder following a viral infection that produces progressive muscle weakness and paralysis)



  • Myasthenia gravis (an autoimmune disease that causes muscle weakness)

  • chronic inflammatory demyelinating polyneuropathy (a chronic neurological disorder caused by destruction of the myelin sheath of peripheral nerves, which produces symptoms similar to Guillain-Barré syndrome)

  • thrombotic thrombocytopenic purpura (a rare blood disorder)

  • Paraproteinemic peripheral neuropathies (a neurological disorder affecting the peripheral nerves)

  • blood that is too thick (hyperviscosity)

Other conditions may respond to plasmapheresis as well. Beneficial effects are usually seen within several days. Effects commonly last up to several months, although longer-lasting changes are possible, presumably by inducing shifts in immune response.
Key Terms
Anaphylaxis
Also called anaphylactic shock, it is a severe allergic reaction to a foreign substance that the patient has had contact with. Penicillin is an example of a substance that causes severe allergic reactions for some people.



Antibody
Chemicals produced by the body to defend it against bacteria, viruses, or other cells foreign to the body (antigens). Each specific antibody reacts against a specific foreign body. Antibodies are also termed immunoglobulins.

Autoimmune
Autoimmune refers to the body's development of intolerance of the antigens on its own cells.

Hemodialysis
A method to take out unwanted parts of the blood. The patient's blood is run through a catheter and tubing into a machine called a dialyzer, which filters out the unwanted blood component.

Plasma
Plasma makes up 50% of human blood. It is a watery fluid that carries red cells, white cells, and platelets throughout the body.
I'll follow up more after the procedure in completed.
 
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9:00am Friday 1/09

I saw mom this morning.  She looks about the same...maybe a little tired.  The nurse said that she's back in arrhythmia and they've given her the meds to help convert her back to sinus rhythm.  Her oxygen levels are still at 40%, which is good.
I asked mom if she had a good night and she nodded yes.  I asked her if she was tired and she nodded yes.  I didn't stay long as I wanted to let her sleep.   I am at work now, but will head back to the hospital around 11:30-ish.

Keep the faith....



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Thursday, January 8, 2009

Mom had a full day of visitors. Cliff & Betty, Bonnie & Brian, Jenny, Stacie, Dad, Brian, Jon, Michelle, and me (forgive me if I left someone out - it's been a long day).

Dad, Brian, Jon, Michelle and I left mom at about 7pm. She was about the same all day long. Her oxygen levels were at about 40% all day. When we left they were up to 50%. Her PEP was up to 10, but that's still better than yesterday.

Michelle, the smarty-pants, brought in her Ensign to read to mom. Mom LOVED it. Michelle left it for anyone else who would like to read to mom. Bring anything else with you, if you'd like, to read to her. Michelle and I rubbed lotion on mom's hand and feet. Yes, that's "feet." She let me rub lotion on her bad foot. That's got to be a good sign. She loved the mini-massages (hint, hint - bring lotion).

Jenny even tried to teach her sign language....it will have to be an ongoing lesson. Mom wants to communicate so badly. It must be very frustrating for her not to be able to speak and tell you what she wants to say or what she needs. Jon and Jenny tried getting her to write something, but it wasn't really working. Oh well, we'll keep trying to figure something out.

Thank you for all the fasting and prayers. I know it's made a difference. I know she can feel your prayers for her, too.
She is grateful and loves you all.

More to come....

Update: Thursday 2pm

2:00pm

Mom looks good. She is alert and can hold your hand and squeeze it. She will look right at you when you talk to her. She will shake and nod her head. So you can carry on a 1 1/2 sided conversation. We've been in to see her a couple of times today. She is happy to see us when we come in. Dad, Jenny, Stacie, Bonnie & Brian, Cliff & Betty, Gladys & Heather Ware have been here, too.

Keep the faith

7:30am

I just spoke with Randy. He said mom is looking BETTER this morning. Her oxygen is down to 40% - meaning they are only feeding her 40% oxygen in the ventilator, and her pep is down to 9 (Something?? External Pressure - the pressure at which they are pushing the oxygen - I believe). It was at 12 and then 14, so this is good, meaning that her lungs are less hard. She was awake and was understanding what he was saying to her. She is still sedated, and she will still be intubated for the next couple of days...at least. This is great news, but it's still just baby steps. We are hoping that everying will fast today (family) and the ward has been asked to fast sometime between today and Sunday. Keep praying and keep that faith strong and steadfast. Randy said you can call him if you have questions. He has his phone with him. He is working at IMC today (mom's hospital). I will be at the hospital again today. I'm heading to the office first, to pick up some things. Call me if you have questions. Love to you all,Sandy